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1)  I am 40 years old and my profession requires that I travel often away from Athens. This has caused problems in all my relationships. I want to start a family but I'm afraid that no girl will not want a husband that will often be absent from the house. Do I have any chance of creating a proper family?

Konstantinos V.

I know of many couples, Konstantinos, that have the same problem as you do but they have actually managed to use it to their advantage. What I mean is that they have developed a lot the of imagination and managed to create various spicy little games that affect their relationship in a very positive way. The important thing is that you find the woman for which you can't wait to go back home to, and of course she has to be feeling the same. My advice is that you put your fears aside and proceed rapidly towards glory: travels and love.

2)  Mrs Magda, I am a 31 year old employee and I want to be married only to a military man. Many times my friends make fun of me and keep telling me that the uniform shouldn't play such an important role when choosing a husband. What is your opinion?

Sofia S.

I won't tell you, Sofia, that one comes accross such a situation often, but on the other hand this is something you shouldn't be accused of. If the idea of the uniform really excites you, makes you happy, sets you free, gives you power and energy, then I have no reason to try to make you change your mind. What value would life have if it was full of guilt, without satisfaction, strict and fake? Keep going... Only you can choose the right man for yourself and the most suitable father for your children.

3) I have been divorced recently, because my husband fell in love with another woman from his work environment. We have a beautiful 6 year old daughter that lives with me as of lately. I am 38 years old and I don't know whether I will be able to start my life over again. Do you believe that a man would easily accept the fact that I have a young child?

Christina Κ.

I believe, Christina, that it's you and your daughter that have to decide whether to accept a man in your life. In case the existence of your daugther becomes a reason for problems for your relationship, then it is quite obvious that the man should not become your husband. As soon as you realise this, then you can start your life over. There are men who would be willing to embrace the children of their future wives like real fathers. You are the one responsible for your choice and I can give you a helping hand if you want to.

4) I think that I ruined my life. I was in a relationship with a married man for 7 years. He used to be my boss, both in life and at work. He was jealous of me, I was not even allowed to go for a cup of coffee to my friend's house. My brother helped me finr a new job and a new house. I have finally settled but I don't know whether I can start my life over, since I am 42 years old.

Giota P.

I won't tell you, Giota, that you are not responsible for what has happened to you till now. Of course you can remake your life and start again, but you have to hurry. You have waisted the most productive years of your life being next to a man that you had "borrowed". This usually happens to people that have not enough self-esteem and are very sensitive. So what you have to do first is prove to yourself and then to everybody else is that the things that are left from your past are your name and your age. And you have to shout clearly that you are Giota and you won't let anyone hurt you anymore and that you are still young enough to be able to start a proper and happy family.

George S.

It's in your hand, George, whether you'll let routine affect your sex life. It's us that are the creators of our routine. In order to beat the fear for future boredom, you will have to think of a series of smart and spicy solutions and let your imaginations free! She knows! In addition, for a couple having a family, there are many other things equally sexual and real.

6) I live in the countryside. From all the women that live in my area, those who are worth getting married to, have already been married! All the rest moved to Athens for studies and stayed there. Me and my friends cannot find women to start a family with. Could you do something please?

Kostas L.

It is not fair, Kostas, for all Greeks not to have equal chances and access in life. Perhaps you are not aware that we have initiated an interesting effort to bring people that live in the countyside and provinces in touch with their other half. I firmly believe that Greece is not just Athens, and you and your friends will be able to make your dreams come true!

George Α.

 To start with, George, you have to use jealousy to your advantage. In contrast to the negative image it can still give you a boost. Jealousy is a sign. The positive thing is that you managed to separate and realise that you are jealous indeed. So, you have to get back your missing self-esteem, because men that keep thinking that their partner is cheating on them live into humiliation, and this can lead to an ill condition. It is imperative that you devote some time to yourself, to listen to him, analyse him, and learn better what he really wants. This will be the first step towards a happy life with your next partner.